Dear single mom - You are queen - No one told you - Here I am telling you that

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You were raised maybe in abusive family. Maybe kids in school bully you and the only one who had was your own. With no support and no one to teach you about good manners. You went to the wrong path. You went in bad company. Alcohol, drugs. Party in parks. And many sober mornings. And again you started to think that you are useless. Maybe you found someone who you thought will love you and support you. But as you know what you spread you will attract. Many bad talks, abusive. Maybe fights and you got fed up. You maybe have a child and you must be good parent to that little children. So you took the courage to get lost of the house who bring you only tears.
 

 


 

 

Somehow you want to find the right path. You will find a job. You will go on concluding for support. You will work maybe two or three jobs just to have care for the kid. Now you look for some young woman who will take care for the kid when you are at job. And what about love?
Beside many pain and struggle, you don’t even want to spend time with anyone. You just want to be present for the kid. To be a good parent cause you didn’t have one. You will give all the love you have. Even you are tired and you are fed up. But you must fight for that kid. That kid give you courage and give you love. That is the only thing that give you life in your self. You must be strong. A single parent is not easy. But just keep going. Take care of that kid. You need him. You know how it was when you were little.
Give him some beautiful books with interesting stories. And at night even you feel so fed up of the day at work. Spend time with your kid and read him some tales. You are strong. Don’t wait someone to tell you that. You will see the result later. That kid will give you much more than you deserve. Will want to spend time with you when it will grew up. 

 

 


 

Will take you to dinner. Buy you flowers. And you will be grateful.
Never push the kid to study hard. Spend time with him and teach him to be good person.
Somehow and someday that kid will find the right path. Thanks to your love

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